This Is An Inside Out World

What do I mean by an inside out world?

How you treat yourself is how others will treat you. It all starts from within and trying to change the other person or the outside situation won't solve your problem.

Let's dive deeper into this understand with an example, have you ever had that boss that nit picks every little thing you do or is highly critical of your work? That boss is just reflecting your own behavior of nit picking and criticizing yourself. Now it would be originating from a different area of your life, so let's say it stems from you criticizing the way you physically look constantly. It is then showing up at work with your boss to get your attention. This isn't the universe out to get us or being rude! It is actually a beautiful way of showing you how critical you are of yourself. That way you get to the point of saying 'enough is enough!'. You start defending yourself at work and seeing how amazing you are doing despite what your boss thinks.

Another way to see this is that you are playing the villain in your own mind for long enough. That someone in your life has to take that role so you can fight back and can show up as the hero. The person who signs up to take that role is not to blame, hence why it is an inside out world. Nobody can do anything to you that you are not already doing to yourself. We are creating the situation. They are actually helping you out to get the soul growth you came here for. When you start to shift your behavior and being your own cheerleader, you will start to notice the outside world reflecting that back to you. Your boss will stop criticizing your work and instead complement it.

You can start with something small to see it in action. Everyday talk to yourself out loud with how amazing you are and be specific in the moment. How you were amazing at washing dishes or making the bed. You can even pull in an attribute you like about yourself. Do this all day, everyday. "Maria, great job on making your bed! You are always so organized". Do this for a few weeks and take notice of how others might treat you.

Now this does not just go for people in your life, this also goes for you having ants in your house (festering thoughts) or you spill your coffee on yourself (leaking your energy). Everything is a message to show you where you have settled in your beliefs of self. Each situation is to help you get back to your true self and back on path towards your purpose!

This is the beauty of being able to intuitively look in. With scientifically precise intuition you can pin point the core communication of the situation, in what area of life it came from, and pull actions to shift that belief which shifts that behavior. If you are looking to dig deeper into a specific situation of your own, please reach out to me to see if a session would be helpful or feel free to use my link on my home page to book with me. Each and everyone of you are here for a purpose and are unique and beautiful in your own way! Don't let your beliefs get in the way!

Thank you all for tuning in!